Four pieces of advice The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change your Life and Achieve Real Happiness by Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake KogaUsing the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 19th-century psychology alongside Freud and Jung, the authors explain how we are all free to determine our own future free of the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It’s a philosophy that’s profoundly liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change and to ignore the limitations that we and those around us can place on ourselves.